Confessions of a
middle-aged woman...ok, not EVERYTHING!
I'll admit it right now. I have never been in a book club.
Not that I haven't wanted to be in a book club, but I just never seemed
to be in the right place at the right time to start or even join a book club.
Wait- I take that back. A few summers ago some friends (about 5 of
us) and I decided to start a poolside book club (sounds pretty great, doesn't
it?). A book was chosen, I read it ("Let the Great World Spin"
by Colum McCann), I think others read it- at least one did, we had our first
meeting, and we talked about the book for a total of six minutes before we
moved on to other topics of interest. It was our first- and last meeting.
What went wrong? I quite enjoyed the book and my other
friend who suggested the book enjoyed it too, but we never really started a
discussion of the novel. We had no leader, no list of questions to ponder, not
everyone had read the book, and we were sitting by a pool... any one of these
reasons is enough to hinder the progress of a discussion. SO what would I
do differently next time?
After our discussion in class this week and thinking more about
what makes a good book club, I believe that a thematic book club is the most
inclusive option. Not everyone in my "book club" was excited
about reading the book. It was only chosen because it was well known and out
of lack of enthusiasm for anything else.
Honestly, it was pretty depressing- not a fun, summer chick-lit read.
The concept of a thematic book club avoids the pitfalls of a
"popular" book club. If my club members and I had all brought
to the table (aka poolside) a great interest in middle-aged prostitutes, grieving
mothers, or hit-and-run accidents we might have been more interested in not
only reading our chosen National Book Award-winning novel, but we could have
continued our summertime book club with other novels based on the same depressing
themes. This was exactly the problem
with the creation of our book club. As a
group we never established what we liked to read as individuals, we only knew
that we each wanted to be in a book club.
It will be interesting to read what has been chosen by our book
club cohorts for this class, as the only category of book we were given was “short
story”. Though we are all in the same
academic program, we all come from diverse backgrounds, with varied interests,
and different expectations for what a book club should be, even between my
partner and I, we presented quite dissimilar suggestions to share with our
group. I printed out all of our group’s
readings today (sorry Marc Prensky) and I look forward to snuggling underneath
the covers on this wintry day and enjoying my group’s (at first glance) very intellectual
short stories.
And no, I won’t be wearing my swimsuit.
I agree with you, thematic book clubs seem like the answer to many typical book club pitfalls. I also think your experience is very typical. I wonder to what extent the formation of book clubs represents a real desire for a book club vs a casual excuse to socialize.
ReplyDeleteI think sometimes book clubs become the excuse to socialize- or the justifiable reason to get away from family...or children...or husbands. Saying, "I'm going to book club", provides a valid purpose for getting out of the house for some women.
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